Approaching girls is easy if done in a right frame, frame that consists of situation, timing, mode and words. The approach should be enjoyable and fun in both parties.

Situation: Bars and nightclubs is the perfect place you think to look for a girl, but they have their friends that protect each other and any guy that comes toward her, she goes on the defensive ”enemy behind lines”. Instead, try the malls, coffee shop, bookstore and any public places that girls don’t need a company to go.

Timing: If she’s alone it might be the right time to engage your approach or even if she has at least one girl companion. Bunch of friends might plank you. Observe if she’s with her family or relatives, it might bring you in trouble.

Mode: You always wanted to know what she feels. Try to catch her attention by looking directly into her eyes and give some smiles if she smiled at you it’s a good sign to engage the approach. Always do everything in a humble way, avoid acting overconfident as she may find you cocky but you must not over shy either. Some girls don’t like shy guy.

Words: The most critical part of approaching. A simple “hi, how are you” can break the ice and hand waving might catch her attention. Always take a hint, if she’s busy and not interested say “nice meeting you” and cut your losses. Don’t go over strong, she might feel threatened. Throw some pick-up lines and if she makes some physical contact like tapping your hands when she laughs, it’s a good sign. Take small steps at a time, if you find she’s interested but don’t go beyond. If you want to get her number, ask it politely like saying “can I have…, or may I have…” Then return to your friends and say “Thanks for everything, Take care always” as she may find you caring. Don’t stay too long after you find a way of connection to her like having her number, to avoid being out in place. Always be hygienic, it will add more points at your first impression.